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I would like to tell you about Roxanne, who we adopted on 16 October 1999.
We got her 8 years ago when I was at a particularly dark point.
I was at first resistant to get a dog because I am allergic to nearly every type of animal alive, but the hubby and kids were keen so I agreed that as long as we got a dog that could stay outside then it should be fine.
Peter and the boys went to the local animal shelter and decided to get Roxanne because of the indication on her cage that if she was not adopted soon then her time would be up. They were told that she was a 7-8 year old dog who had lived with an elderly couple who were no longer able to care for her.
She apparently spent the trip home nuzzling and licking them, seeming to be enormously grateful for being rescued.
When they brought her home I am sorry to say that at first I was disappointed. She was an old dog (the week later our vet told us she was definitely 8 because of the state of her teeth) which I took to mean that we'd be lucky to have her with us for just a few years. She was also a bit bigger than I'd hoped for - which I assumed meant that she would not want to be cuddled - and she had bristly fur making stroking and cuddling superficially prickly.
Rox stayed outside for the first few days but spent most of her time at the back door looking at us with sad eyes. As our back room has vinyl flooring I agreed to her coming into that part of the house, but definitely not onto the carpets. On vinyl her fur and skin cells could be easily swept up reducing my allergy risk.
After about a week I discovered that as long as I stopped her from licking me I was actually able to be with her without sneezing or getting wheezy. Somehow I seemed to have developed a tolerance, probably not unlike the dust mite injections I had when I was younger. Right to the end I would break out in hives wherever she licked or nuzzled, but we were able to have her in the house without any other allergic response.
Her personality then took over. She loved to have her ears or back scratched, she loved to chase tennis balls and would always (until the last year or so) bring them back to be thrown again. Eventually we even let her go so far as to jump on the beds and sleep at our feet. I'd actually forgotten until typing this that we even used to let her jump onto the couch. These were things she has been unable to do for the past few years because she was no longer able to jump due to arthritic knees and hips.
She was always incredibly pleased to see us when we got home from work. She would run from one end of the house to the other and back again repeatedly in her joy - on a daily basis! She actually still managed to do this, albeit somewhat slower, up until late last year. She even had little runs like this until a few months ago when she stopped running altogether.
4 years ago we thought that she was declining because she could no longer chase the tennis ball for lengthy periods and was unable to jump. After her first rear knee reconstruction she promptly did the other rear knee and the vet indicated that there was no point having that knee done. She lost about 5kg dropping from 22.5 to 17.5kg.
Around this time our eldest son was making a bid for us to get a pug, and we were telling him that we would not get a pug because of their numerous health problems (particularly in hot climates). We then saw a program in which there was a feature about a breeder who was deliberately creating hybrids to overcome various health problems. One of the examples was the "pugalier" which looked puggish but had a longer snout to overcome breathing problems, and had hips that did not have the congenital problems associated with pugs. It was also more likely that their hearts would be stronger than that of the Cavalier King Charles which is apparently renowned for heart problems.
We succumbed and got Abbey (who will turn 4 in a few weeks).
At first Roxanne did not like her at all. At best she ignored her. At worst, when Abbey tried to snuggle in with her, she would growl and nip at her - never to the point of actually biting but just to tell her to go away. This lasted for about 6 weeks, but Abbey was persistent in her snuggling and Roxanne gradually softened and tolerated the intrusion on her personal space (as in on of the attached photos). I don't know that she ever actually liked it - she never went out of her way to snuggle with an already sleeping Abbey - but she certainly accepted Abbey's wish for closeness. After this they started to get closer and closer with Abbey nipping at her heels to get her to play. Rox accepted this and started being more playful, and eventually got right into the spirit of it and would play with vigour - including at times having Abbey's head entirely within her jaws! This looked a bit scary, as did all the leg nipping and forced rolling onto the back that Rox did to Abbey, but she never once hurt Abbey. She always very carefully judged exactly how much pressure to apply in their play, and Abbey loved every moment of it.
Roxanne thrived with Abbey around. She became more active (although still unable to jump) and was clearly happier. She also regained her lost weight. We thought we might actually have her for another 2 years. Never in our wildest dreams did we expect that she would be with us for almost 4 years more.
The past year has been very tough for her. Her movements have been more restricted, and in the mornings she has struggled to get out of her bed - often soiling without knowing it. She continued to appear to be happy, though, and still played with Abbey (at a more restricted pace) and sought out cuddles and scratches on a regular basis.
In the last week this got worse, until during the last few days she would softly whimper to indicate that she wanted to stand or move. I was getting up a few times each night to take her out for her wee, and to move her from one side to the other. Last Friday morning she couldn't stand at all.
Through all this she still had her appetite and ate voraciously. She was still craving affection and was nuzzling and licking anyone who would go to her. In the last few days my arms were constantly itchy because I was letting her lick at will and cuddling her so closely. She was still completely alert, but she was virtually immobile.
I made her last day as enjoyable as possible, including taking her out to lie in the sun for awhile, giving her lots of treats and lifting her on the bed for a snooze cuddled up with me. My hubby and the boys came home early from where they each had been and spent her last couple of hours patting her. We all went to the vet with her and we were cuddling her right to the end.
I couldn't have been more wrong about what a great addition the the family she would be on that first day. She was absolutely wonderful, and I am missing her enormously. Everyday things remind me of her - like hanging out washing: she would always run out to sit with me while I was doing that (in her younger days bringing the ball to me to kick around for her). Whenever I'm at the sink I remember her - she would always come to see if I was cooking because she wanted the vegetable scraps (especially carrot peel and broccoli stalks).
Roxanne had been with us for 11 days short of 8 of her approximately 16 years and was a wonderful, affectionate giver of unconditional love. She never got in a bad mood with us, she never even snapped at us when we caused her pain. She just lapped up all the love we were willing to give her and gave it back many times over. She is so missed by us all, but we do not regret for one moment having adopted and old dog.
 
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